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By Tracey Cox for MailOnline. Like porn or detest it, according to recent research there's a 97 per cent chance your man watches it reasonably regularly.

For most Dating Alvin local area shopping and business, going online to look at sexy things is a relatively innocent bonus - something to do when you're out with the girls or he's bored while you're working late. But there's a worrying trend that a growing of men are replacing 'real sex' with net sex. Scroll down for video. Recent research shows that 97 per cent of men enjoying watching porn fairly regularly, here Tracey Cox explains what to do when it starts to become a problem.

Never has graphic porn been more easily available than now - and men are taking full advantage of it. In one US survey, 97 per cent of men said they'd accessed porn and two percent said they'd rather not answer the question. And if Horney women in Anchorage al real women not a yes, then what is!

I hasten to add women also watch porn and in moderation and the hands of intelligent and emotionally mature people, internet porn is relatively harmless to relationships and can enhance your sex life, in some instances. So a bit of reassurance, first up.

There are lots of reasons why porn is so appealing to men, particularly - and they're not as evil as you imagine. Tracey says that it should start to become a worry if they are regularly seeking a particular sort of porn which could cause them to struggle to become aroused otherwise. He can have it any time he likes. It's ready and waiting whenever he fancies it. Not only does he have to negotiate periods, PMS and fat days, he has to wait until Clarkrange TN bi horny wives in the right mood.

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It's immediate. Jeannette PA sex dating he needs to do is click his mouse to instantly turn himself on — no foreplay required. Even if he's living with you or married, there's still a certain amount of cajoling, kissing and foreplay before you deliver the goods via oral sex or intercourse. Solo sex in front of a screen takes none.

It's lazy sex — and not unusual for men to have net sex a couple of times a week and once a week with their partner in real life.

It's tailor made for his taste. Go into any popular porn site Women looking hot sex Batson the choice is mind-boggling. There's something for his every mood and particular penchant. Most men have a few favourite sites and a particular type of porn they know will push all the right buttons. It takes a mere five minutes.

Does your man prefer porn to you? tracey cox reveals what to do when he finds the computer more alluring than a session between the sheets

Men are most easily aroused by visual stimulation so porn does the job nicely. He can have a quick solo sex session in the time it takes you to pop down the shops for a carton of milk. The most reputable studies suggest only about five per cent of porn users have a problem that interferes with their daily life.

Whatever draws a man to porn, it's seldom a reflection on their partner, Needing more nsalets text too Syracuse New York most sex therapists.

A new study sheds light on this contentious issue.

It's not about what they're not getting at home, it's novelty and variety they're seeking. It could be that men are hard-wired to want to look at sexy things for evolutionary reasons. It's easy Housewives wants hot sex Zephyrhills South and that means they're ready for sex whenever opportunity arises and can get it over and done with quickly before wild animals come to eat them. Most men still masturbate to porn even when in a sexually satisfying relationship. Huge s of 'normally-sexed' men do this on a regular basis.

Men generally don't view porn or solo sex as infidelity. One Norwegian study found when one partner used porn, there are problems sexually. Women seeking casual sex Winnebago Nebraska both partners use it, there are actually fewer problems. Women might not watch online porn as much as men but they're well up for reading erotica — and get equally as aroused by it.

One British website found 68 per cent of women who searched 'Fifty Shades' — nicknamed 'Mummy porn' - looked online for lingerie afterwards. Tracey said if you discover mainstream porn in his Internet history once or twice a week this is normal. Most women find out their partner's been indulging in a little internet porn when they accidentally of course click on the 'history' button of their browser.

Personally, if all you find is the odd mainstream porn site and he doesn't seem to be visiting it more than once or twice a week, I wouldn't Women want nsa Mapleton Oregon it another thought. Assuming you're enjoying good, regular sex, it doesn't mean he's not happy with you if he's having the occasional masturbation session.

It's nearly always just a bit of fun and a release Love in shirland him. Also don't panic if you don't look like the girls on the screen. It doesn't mean he wants you to look like that or even do the stuff they're doing.

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Often guys will watch the sort of Adult seeking sex tonight Danielson Connecticut they'd be horrified to take through to reality. He might have a particular physical type that turns on his 'filthy' side but have absolutely no desire to date someone who looks like that.

What should ring alarm bells is the following. It goes without saying that sex involving children or violence not only warrants a confrontation but a possible call to the police. But there's also danger if he's focusing exclusively Women want sex Buskirk one particular area - even something relatively innocent like women with enormous breasts.

If that's all Chat with horny women in Port Elgin watches, he'll train his brain and his penis to only become aroused with a certain stimuli. If their breasts are a DD and you're an A cup, sex with you won't push the same buttons. It could also then tip over to become a fetish: when a person is incapable of becoming sexually excited without that particular thing.

Another reason for concern: if sex with you has decreased or stopped but you know he's still having solo porn-fuelled sex sessions. Try not to have a kneejerk reaction.

It's usually fixable if you approach it the right way. It doesn't, for instance, necessarily mean he's gone off you. Don't get me wrong, if you've dramatically changed appearance or been a Sexxxie wild Brewood girl so-and-so, it might be you.

But if it's simply happening as the relationship ages, it's probably because he's bored and it's easier to watch porn than to work on your sex life. If you're a year Adult wants real sex Cape Fair so into your relationship, the lust hormones that fuel desire are already trickling to a halt. Desire won't just tap you both on the shoulder like it used to in the beginning - you need to create it.

He's creating it by watching porn. That's all that's happening. If you think of it like this, you'll feel less threatened. You're also in the right head space to solve the problem.

Talk about it. Tell him you know his 'secret' but do it in a light-hearted way. Tell him you hit the history button and discovered that he's been watching porn you looked because you were concerned that you weren't having as much sex as usual. Instead, joke that his computer gets to see him more than you and that you bet he can't go without watching his porn for Ladies wants sex MS Bogue chitto 39629 week. Or two. He'll protest that it's easy no-one likes to admit addictionthen all you have to do is hold him to it.

When discussing your partner's porn habits try not to be judgmental and approach the subject in a light-hearted way. Letting him know you know but not giving him a hard time about it is often the first step to solving the problem together. Set some house rules.

When is it acceptable for him to watch it? What about things like live web cam sex or interactive porn where Adult seeking nsa Port Jervis Arcadia woman needs cock can ask the girls on screen to do things? For most women there's an enormous difference between their partner passively watching something pre-recorded compared to a 'live performance', let alone 'talking' with the women on screen.

Ask what the main appeal is. If it's novelty, talk about ways you can make sex more interesting for both of you.